Flower essences are very supportive for those suffering
from trauma, abuse, hidden wounds, and other intensely stressful
situations. Mental illness, addiction, violence, depression and
so many other serious problems respond beautifully to flower
essences because these conditions involve complex interactions of
biochemistry, emotion, thoughts, and subtle energies. The
energetic patterns of the flowers add the natural, spiritual
dimension to healing so often missing from mainstream treatment.
I treat each person as a unique individual with a meaningful
The two fundamental processes of flower essence healing are
release and reconnection. Release of old pain and trauma,
energetic and physical toxins, emotional burdens and memories,
energetic and neurological blockages. Reconnection to life, soul,
the self, the truth, the body. Old patterns of energy, thought,
and reaction are released. Fresh connections are made in new,
Each person is different, with a complex and creative strategy
for coping. No situation, no person, is hopeless or meaningless.
Flower essences can bring insight, comfort, and the will to
change. They repair, align, balance. For those who are willing,
customized flower essence combinations offer keys to unlock the
doors of the heart, the soul, and the hopeful, magical future.
Challenging Events & Situations
When life takes a sudden turn, flower essences and astrology can
help you cope and offer spiritual perspective. Sudden changes are
stressful, reducing immunity and vitality. Shocks cause mental
and emotional freezing, and a numbness and shutting down of body
systems and energetic flow. Unreleased, this sets the stage for
later serious problems.
Flower essences ease body and energy systems back into balance
and the flow of health. When life goes too fast and too hard,
astrology can help in revealing that disruptive planetary
transits are at work. Flower essences can maximize your potential
for changing and growing with the cosmic influences. They cushion
you against stress and shocks by reconnecting every system in the
body-mind-spirit to the ultimate sources of vitality, inner
peace, and truth, found in nature and the spiritual dimension
within each one of us.
Pressure, whether from within or outside of us, puts a strain on
mind and emotions as well as our physical health. Modern life is
full of everyday stresses; when more is added to your personal
load, the interweaving of subtle and physical systems that is
life can begin to fray at the weakest points.
Flower essences can buffer temporary stresses, as well as work to
heal those weak places, where old or unresolved memories, events,
family and other personal issues have created disharmony.
Awareness is enhanced, understanding and healing follow. We can
move forward stronger and more whole, shedding what felt so
draining before like rain off an umbrella.
Loss hurts, whether a dear one has died, or a beloved has left us
alone, or we've lost an irreplaceable aspect of our lives. The
connections are broken. We feel empty. Other losses echo, other
hurts...sometimes from before conscious memories. Flower essences
remind us that our true nature is eternal and indestructible.
They reorient, heal and reconnect us to the wellsprings of love
and meaning in life and spirit.
Chronic Illness & Disability
Illness and disability can set us apart from the main current of
the world's daily life, leaving us isolated, hurt, abandoned.
Besides the challenges of dealing with our own needs, we also
have the additional struggle for understanding, access,
accommodations. Intense feelings arise from awareness of the
differences that limit and set us apart. Flower essences help
with adjusting to and accepting our conditions. They can open us
to the inner richness and delight of exploring life in new ways,
on new paths, forging new identities.
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When you sense something isn't right in an important
relationship, flower essences and astrology can help work on the
problems. So much can be healed by working on oneself, taking
responsibility, forgiving, letting go of fears in order to love
without attachment or dependence. Bleeding Heart, Money Plant,
Peonies, Roses are all excellent flower essences to work with. Working on
communicating with the other person can also make positive
If the relationship is clearly ending or over, flower essences
help move through the grief and anger and hurt authentically,
responsibly, without blame or victimhood. Those are hard
feelings, but worth it to stay with until they pass, transforming
into new awareness and connection to your core self. An
astrological reading can show the openings occurring, and flower
essences lend support towards taking steps in new directions.
Every way out seems barred: stuck without money, in a bad job,
toxic family, wrong body, whatever. Life gives us important
truths and opportunities. When it seems we can't get anywhere, we
must look within, change our attitudes, open up to a different
perception or experience, in order to see the way through.
Astrology can point to where we may be limiting our viewpoint.
Flower essences bring in the help of cosmic forces, our souls,
higher selves, hearts and spiritual guides. So often we think we
can only get where we want to go by making things happen. By
allowing our hearts and the still small voice within to lead us,
we can experience an entirely new relationship with ourselves,
the world, and life.
Most of us were taught to believe in the rules, the rational, the
material, the known. We lost our intuitive connection to spirit
and soul, and over-developed mind and ego to survive. Few of us
have been loved and accepted unconditionally. Without the loving
foundation of knowing without a doubt that we are okay just as we
are, we grow up fearful. We crave control to protect us from hurt
and the insecurity of the unknown. But we risk losing the loving
wisdom of our hearts that embraces the freedom beyond fear.
We fear for those we love, but love becomes attachment and need,
and, attempting to hold on to those we need, we trespass on their
The flower devas pour out love. Every flower essence reconnects
us to our hearts and souls, and the spirit and earth love that is
life. They help us trust that we are okay, and will be okay, no
matter what happens, because we are cradled between heaven and
earth in the loving arms of the great oneness. They help us let
go, see ourselves as the divine beings we truly are, and learn
new ways to love and live.
We tend to believe what we're told. We become how an abuser makes
us feel: afraid, ashamed, helpless, hurt. As small children, our
minds, bodies, and selves are still developing, building on our
experiences. When the foundation is faulty the structure is too
shaky to handle all the pressures of life without falling apart
somehow. Those abused as adults often experienced some sort of
neglect or violation as children that created a vulnerability to
being violated again. The weak structure of self needs to be
rebuilt, discarding what doesn't work, finding the foundation and
making it strong and whole.
Flower essences help this rebuilding, letting go of everything
that doesn't ring true and instead connecting to heart, soul,
spirit, body and divine love, guidance, comfort and wisdom.
Flower essences support the healing of the nervous system from
trauma and stress. They gently release hurts, memories, feelings,
and old beliefs. They soothe frightened inner children and
welcome them safely into the new, integrated self.
Self Destructive Behaviors
When inner torment wrings us into tangles we cannot bear, we
often feel we have to act in harmful ways to relieve the
pressure. Perhaps it is hurting our own bodies, eating, drinking,
drugs, fighting, anonymous sex, or other violent or dangerous
actions. Flower essences work to heal the roots of inner
conflict, bringing awareness and new perspective on the
situations that trigger us, and the reasons for our responses.
Awareness brings positive transformation. Astrology can suggest
alternative positive and creative outlets for our intense urges
Flower essences are great helpers in all phases of recovery, from
the first desire to step towards health, to healing body, mind,
heart and spirit from the effects of abusing oneself. Often other
issues or traumas lie beneath addiction, and recovery requires
the deep healing of these. Flower essences support our connection
to inner truth and the guiding wisdom of our hearts and souls to
uncover who we really are. Astrology can often point out specific
energetic or interpersonal relationships that, when handled
differently, ease the stresses or vulnerabilities that contribute
to addictive behaviors.
Our bodies aren't the only repositories of pollution. Besides
cellular and fluid stagnation from overload, our energy bodies
can be clogged with discordant frequencies from chemicals, drugs,
heavy metals, and other toxins. It's also common to accumulate
negative thoughts, verbal sound bytes, or dysfunctional emotional
patterns from the media, people we're around, and our families of
origin. Our own negative thoughts and emotional responses are the
most potent of all.
Flower essences help to clear all levels of disharmony, and
reconnect us to our inner light, just as the passing of cloudy
skies lets the sun shine clearly down. There are flower essences to
support cleansing our organs and body systems, as well as
meridians, subtle bodies, and the chakra energy centers where our
most powerful beliefs and internalized images are held. Using
flower essences in conjunction with a practice of energy
psychology, affirmation, visualization, or prayer replaces
negative beliefs and images with positive, healing ones, leading
to transformation on all levels of life.
Anxiety, Depression, Anger
Often these unpleasant feelings are masks for deeper, more
difficult, often painful emotions. We develop these habitual
feelings to distract and protect ourselves from the underlying
hurt that we believe would overwhelm us. Whatever the cause of
our pain, gentle flower essence therapy can see us safely through
to regaining our whole selves, our choices and freedom, our joy
and love of life.
Flower Essences & Medications
Flower essence therapy is an excellent adjunct to mainstream
approaches and will not interfere with medications; in fact,
flower essences tend to make medications more effective, and can
even reduce dosages. They also help significantly with side-effects. Note: Flower essences are not a replacement for medical diagnosis or treatment. If you have a serious physical condition please see a qualified physician.
Fears & Alienation
We mammals are social beings; we need to be with others, to touch
and be touched, to feel connected. When we've been tortured,
neglected, rejected, ignored we tend to react by withdrawal into
our own fortress of suffering, or with anger, hate, blame. Flower
essences help to move through the fear that keeps us armored and
separate. They open us to love, trust, and safe reconnection.
Identity & Gender Issues
Nothing is more foundational to life than our experience of
ourselves. Everything that happens to us, every choice, failure,
achievement, misunderstanding or revelation contributes to our
sense of selfhood. Identity is basic to how we fit in and connect
with others, determining whether we feel alone or part of a
community. Awareness of the self is where flower essences excel;
like the layers of an onion, we move miraculously towards the
numinous core, becoming ever more whole, ever more ourselves.
We all have both feminine and masculine aspects; family, culture,
and biology influence the ease or difficulty we have accepting
ourselves. We suffer when our inner identity doesn't match what
others see. The horoscope reveals, through the natal angles and
planetary placements, fundamentals of who we are with all the
conflicts, challenges, and creative potential we were born with.
Transits from Saturn, Chiron, Neptune, Uranus, and Pluto can show
particular stresses occurring now, as well as fruitful directions
for exploration, awareness, and transformation.
Healing can take a long time. The journey to joy and wholeness
can sometimes seem like two steps back to each step forward.
Flower essences keep the process moving forward. They bolster
faith and confidence, connect us to the inner core of knowing we
are on the path to happiness. They soften the disappointments,
balance the extremes.
Sustained flower essence therapy addresses the key elements of
true recovery: unconditional love and forgiveness towards
yourself, letting go of the past and forgiving others, awareness
and being in the present moment, taking responsibility, and
transforming limiting beliefs into a positive outlook.
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Victim Consciousness & Responsibility
Yes, it happened, that awful hurtful, unfair thing. It destroyed
your happiness, your health, your faith, your trust, your world.
Are you still carrying it around? Does getting kicked when you're
already down feel so familiar you expect it? Do you explain your
life with all the ways you've been hurt, the injustices done, the
bad luck? Does the whole world act against you?
Being a victim is the flip side of your own power. Flower
essences and astrology can reveal a different you. Whatever it
was that took your power away, it's over, it's past. You can take
your power back now by taking responsibility for your life. Don't
wait any longer for someone else to fix it.
The universe cooperates with our consciousness. Life acts as a
mirror, reflecting our thoughts and beliefs in events. You are
the one who must fix your life. By taking responsibility for
everything that happens to you, everything you think and feel and
experience, you can truly change your life. Amazingly, even
things that appear beyond your control can change when your
attitude changes. This is so because we are truly spiritual, as
well as material beings.
Being in the Present
When we live in the present, we come to each moment fresh. We can
make choices consciously instead of being driven by old patterns,
habits, beliefs, or fears. There are many things in life we
cannot control, but there is one thing you and only you CAN
control: your experience of your life. Moment by moment, each of
us CAN experience that we are OK, that the deep inner core of who
we are is unharmed, intact, no matter what is happening. In the
NOW, we have the transformative power of awareness. We have the
power to make choices. We can create positive change, just by
being here NOW.
Flower essences assist us in coming into the present, getting out of our thoughts and mind chatter. Flower essences help us come into the present by heightening our awareness of our senses, our emotions, what our minds are doing. Flower essences increase consciousness of what is actually happening inside us, outside us, and our responses. We become more aware of where our thoughts go--into the past, into the future, into imaginings, anxieties, habitual emotions. Once we are aware of what we're doing, we're in the present, and can make new choices.
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